The Path of
ENERGETIC CONTAINMENT
A 4-Week Online or In-Person JOURNEY
There’s a practice people often refer to as semen retention, though the name itself feels far too small for what actually happens inside this work.
At its root, it’s a way of meeting your own energy with more presence and honesty. A way of slowing down enough to notice what really moves you, what rises in you, what overwhelms you and what opens when you stop rushing toward the end.
It’s a shift in how you relate to your desire: from something that spills out quickly to something you learn to hold, circulate and understand.
When you take the pressure off “the finish line,” your body reveals a different kind of pleasure. Slower. Warmer. More layered.
You start to feel the small waves under the big ones, the pulse that sits behind the obvious heat, the way arousal builds, drops, coils, widens and unfolds.
Most men never get to experience this because they’ve been taught to move too fast to notice.
Inside this practice, you learn how to stay with yourself in that intensity, instead of collapsing into it. Your desire stops running the show. You begin to lead it. And from that shift, a quiet confidence grows, a groundedness that follows you far beyond the bedroom and into the way you move through the rest of your life.
This is a path of refinement.
A misconception is to think of it as denial, when it’s actually expansion.
Let me introduce you to a different way of working with your sexual energy, one that’s slower, more intentional, and far more honest than what most of us were ever taught.
Across these four weeks, I’ll guide you through the foundations of this practice in a way that feels practical and embodied. We’ll look at what actually happens in your body when arousal builds, how to stay present in the intensity and how to work with your desire instead of being pulled around by it. You’ll learn through conversation, real-time guidance and practices you can fold into your daily life.
The deeper you go into this work, the more your body opens.
Pleasure stretches out. You feel more, not less. Your stamina changes because your relationship to sensation changes.
And the energy you once lost quickly starts staying with you: feeding your clarity, your presence, your focus, your sense of self.
This Journey consists of
4x 60min Online Coaching Sessions
OR
4x ~120min In-Person Sessions with a Tantric Massage-Style bodywork to practice the teachings
also including:
Personalised Coaching so YOU get the most of our time which are live sessions where I guide and help you understand what’s actually happening in your body
Teaching and lessons on how to become Multiorgasmic, Orgasms which replenish you as opposed to depleting you
Practices that build your capacity to hold more sensation without losing yourself
Breathwork, meditation, visualisation and somatic tools that strengthen presence
Rituals and home practices designed to build consistency
Tailored practices for you to do in between sessions
Text or Email Support in between sessions and beyond the container
If additional time is needed to fully master the material, time can be extended.
This Journey Supports Men who
feel disconnected from their bodies
feel overwhelmed by their desire and/or want to overcome sex and porn addiction
are suffering from premature ejaculation and/or erectile dysfunction
want to slow down and experience intimacy differently
find it hard to last
are interested in learning the distinction between orgasm and ejaculation
feel shame around their sexual expression
already practice retention but struggle to translate it into partnered intimacy
want to feel powerful, steady, present; not reactive or rushed
It also welcomes those who come with curiosity rather than struggle, men who simply feel the pull toward a more soulful, connected, spiritual experience of their sexuality and use of life force energy.
If any part of you is curious about what’s possible when you stop running toward release and start learning how to stay, this work meets you there.
What You Can Expect
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More control
The grounded, embodied kind that comes from understanding your own arousal instead of fighting it
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More sensation
The wide-spectrum kind you only feel when you stop racing through your pleasure
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More presence
The kind that makes intimacy feel spacious rather than pressured
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More energy in your everyday life
A side effect of containing rather than leaking your charge
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More confidence
not performative, but born from actually knowing your body
Simmons, London
“Working with K has helped me reevaluate my relationship with my desire. I took the four-week course on sexual self-control.
Having worked with several tantra practitioners in the past, I found that this experience stood out for several reasons.
First, K is very attentive: this attentiveness made me feel safe and respected throughout the course, which enabled me to express my desires more confidently and clearly.
Second, K's advice is grounded, practical, and useful. The exercises, breathwork, and homework were not vague, jargon-filled, or unhelpfully spiritual, but were instead easy to digest and implement.
Third, the course expectations and progression were clearly communicated, so I understood what goals were reasonable and attainable. I look forward to working K more in the future.”
Non-ejaculatory practice is, at its heart, about connection: body, mind, breath and the deeper layers that shape how you experience yourself. As you move further into this work, you start to understand that orgasm and ejaculation aren’t the same thing and that separating the two opens a completely different relationship with your own pleasure.
When you’re not rushing toward release, your body has space to show you more sensations, more nuances, more depth. The intensity doesn’t disappear; it expands. It spreads.
It becomes something you can actually stay with rather than something that overwhelms you.
Over time, pleasure stops being a quick peak and becomes something you can hold, build and circulate. A reservoir you draw from, instead of a moment that leaves as fast as it arrives.