tantric rituals

Vulva Owners

Yoni Massage London

An initiation into becoming the true curator and sculptor of your own life,


tapping into the natural flow of your creative heritage as a woman.

YONI MASSAGE & BODY WORSHIP

The Yoni is a woman’s sacred flower, her opening is to the inner depths of her soul, heart, sexuality and intuition. There is power and radiance possible for every woman as she learns to accept, enjoy and love her Yoni.
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Yoni Massages are a deep practice of coming home to yourself, to lovingly heal any shame or emotional blockages that we may have gathered from our life experiences or from culture or linage.


A Yoni Massage Ritual guides us how to approach with sacred acceptance, finding the love and beauty inherent in our own sex.

Possible Directions for us to go

  • Tantric Massage

Tantric Yoni Massage is an invitation into the deepest states of relaxation, self-connection and the healing power of unconditional love and presence.

The deep Mystics of Tantra teach us how to merge spiritual and sexual ecstasy. It’s one of the highest spiritual arts, as it marries together soul and matter, bringing in the divinity and innocence of eroticism and spirituality. 

The ritual of receiving this Tantric Massage is a sacred blessing to the body and an honouring of all parts of our being including what is vulnerable, what is wild and what is pleasurable.

This massage focuses on the body and the outer parts of the Yoni and doesn’t usually include inner work.

  • Yoni Mapping

Yoni Mapping involves the methodical exploration of both the external and internal parts of your Yoni, allowing you to gain a deeper understanding of sensations, preferences, and dislikes when it comes to touch.

Often women struggle to discern the direction or location of touch within their Yoni. Through presence and slowness, we’ll create a ‘map’ that will support your ability to connect with and feel more within your Yoni.

  • Yoni Dearmouring

Yoni Dearmouring is the targeted application of massage techniques and gentle pressure to specific regions on the outside of the yoni and the vaginal canal, which stimulates blood circulation and the release of stored emotions, traumas or solidifications.

This transformative process allows you to experience heightened sensations, deeper pleasure, and ultimately more freedom and fulfilling orgasms.

  • Womb Clearing

An ancient ritual to release, clear and recirculate anything that is stuck or stagnant in the womb (space). As naturally receiving beings, a lot of energy can attach itself unwantedly and if we don’t consciously and ritualistically release it with intention, it can affect and influence us.

This could be emotions, the imprint of a former lover, a negative experience you can’t seem to shake off or something you want to specifically let go of in your life.

This ritual gives the opportunity to reset the womb and set an intention to only allow what serves you to enter your being.

Inner work can be included.

In all the sessions, we’ll be moving at the pace of your own body- not your (potentially goal-driven) mind. That means moving slowly and checking in regularly with yourself.

It means that while we’ll set an intention of where we could be going, sometimes the most healing thing is to take a step back and not do the internal work, or only put the gentlest of pressures.

Sometimes the most healing thing is to tell your body that you’re listening and not overriding. This way of repatterning may be the most important foundation to recreate trust within yourself.

Benefits

  • Deeper connectivity to oneself

  • Awakening the deep pleasure that lies within you and your entire body
     

  • Integration and connection of the mind, heart and sex as one
     

  • Opening the pathways to full body orgasm
     

  • Learn how to fully surrender and receive
     

  • Release traumas and shame in the body
     

  • Unfurling of emotional blockages
     

  • Learn about boundaries within yourself and sense when they come up

Sequence of the Session

After welcoming you, we’ll have a conversation about your intention and why you’ve come to see me. We’ll together feel into the ideal way to structure this session for you, finding ways to make you feel safe and set our container.

You’ll have the opportunity to have a shower and prepare yourself, and from there, we’ll move into a grounding and meditation practice.


What follows is a loving, soft back and front massage to help your body feel safe, relaxed and surrendered; and for you to get used to my energy. According to our agreement, your desires and openness, we’ll take slow steps towards the Yoni and genital area- if you wish so. There will be multiple times when I’ll check in with you and ask permission: f.e. before touching your breasts, before touching the Yoni, especially before entering her. If anything is not a clear felt yes in your body, we will pause, feel and breathe together.

When the bodywork part feels complete, there will be some integration time for you after which we’ll have a check-in and debrief conversation in which you have the opportunity to share your experience, ask questions and I can share with you what I’ve noticed and potential next steps for you to take.